A clear place to begin

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you download, print, or begin making room for a more intentional relationship practice.

Who is this workbook for?

The House We Make is designed for Black sapphic couples who want a structured, culturally grounded way to deepen communication, care, repair, pleasure, and shared future planning. It can support couples at many stages, whether you are beginning a new chapter or tending a long-standing relationship.

What is included in the Core Edition?
The Core Edition includes three complete 134-page editions: an accessibility-enhanced fillable PDF, a color printable PDF, and a low-ink printable PDF. It also includes a Start Here guide and a personal-use license.
What devices and software can I use?

You can read the digital edition on a computer, tablet, or phone with a current PDF reader. Adobe Acrobat Reader is recommended for the most reliable fillable-form behavior. You can also print the static color or low-ink edition from a computer or mobile device that supports PDF printing.

Can we save our fillable answers?
Yes. Use the accessibility-enhanced fillable edition in a dedicated PDF reader, save a private working copy, and test one field before completing a full page. Saving behavior can vary by device and PDF reader.
Can we print the workbook?

Yes. The color print edition is designed for a richer home-print experience, and the low-ink edition uses grayscale-friendly pages to reduce ink use. Both are static PDFs with writing areas preserved. Print at 100% or Actual Size on US Letter paper for the intended page geometry.

What does the personal-use license allow?

The license allows the purchaser and the people in their household to use the files for personal, non-commercial relationship reflection. You may not resell, redistribute, publicly post, share the download link, or use the workbook to provide a paid service without written permission.

How is the digital product delivered?

After a successful purchase, the storefront provides a download link for the customer ZIP package. Download the ZIP, extract it, and keep a backup in a secure location. Delivery and payout timing can depend on the payment processor and account verification.

Do you offer refunds?
Because access to the digital files is delivered immediately, purchases are generally final once the files have been accessed or downloaded. Contact us within 7 days if you were charged twice or if a confirmed technical problem prevents access. This does not limit rights that cannot legally be limited where you live.
What accessibility language is accurate?

The digital edition is tagged and accessibility-enhanced, with described form fields, tooltips, bookmarks, and reading-order metadata. It has not received independent PDF/UA certification. Accessibility can also vary by PDF reader, device, operating system, and assistive technology.

Is this workbook appropriate when there is abuse or coercion?

No. This workbook is for mutual relationship work where both people can participate freely and safely. It is not therapy or crisis support and is not appropriate for relationships involving abuse, coercion, threats, stalking, or violence. If safety is a concern, prioritize confidential support from a qualified advocate or emergency services.