Fillable 134-page PDF
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Digital Core Edition
The House We Make: A Relationship Ritual Workbook for Black Sapphic Couples
Build the love you live in.
Launch price
$49.00
Regular price: $64.00
A relationship ritual workbook for Black sapphic couples, with room for reflection, conversation, and the practices that help a shared life hold.
Black sapphic couples deserve relationship tools that do not ask them to translate their lives. This 134-page guided workbook supports clearer communication, care, repair, intimacy, shared planning, and the home you are building together.
- 134
- pages
- 687
- prompts
- 695
- fillable fields
Digital only. No physical item ships. Access the customer ZIP after successful payment through Wix, then save the files and return to them in your own time.
For one couple or household. Personal use only. A clear, private place to begin, without pressure to finish everything at once.
The complete package
Everything you need to make the practice your own.
One customer ZIP, arranged to meet you at the table, on the couch, or wherever you make room to talk.
Color print PDF
A full-color version for couples who want to work on paper.
Low-ink print PDF
A grayscale-friendly version for more considered printing.
Start Here guide
A gentle orientation for choosing a starting point and setting a pace.
One customer ZIP
The three workbook formats, guide, and license arrive together in one digital download.
Personal-use license
Licensed for one couple or household, so the work can stay close to home.
Choose the format that fits
Made to be used, not just admired.
Each format contains the full workbook. Use the fillable PDF when typing and saving works best, choose color when you want the visual system in print, or choose low-ink for grayscale printing.
These are digital files. You supply the device, PDF reader, paper, and printer that suit your household. Printing appearance can vary by device and printer settings.
A practice with range
Start anywhere. Return to what helps.
The prompts invite shared language around communication, Black sapphic identity, intimacy, money, family, ambition, invisible labor, public safety, repair, pleasure, caregiving, and long-term planning.
There is no required order or performance to get right. You can choose one page, pause a conversation, skip what is not for today, and come back when it is.
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Before you purchase
A clear agreement for thoughtful use.
Your purchase is for personal use by one couple or household. You may save, complete, and print the materials for your own household.
Please do not redistribute, resell, publicly post, rebrand, reproduce for others, or use the workbook in paid client work.
Because immediate digital access is provided, purchases are generally final once files are accessed or downloaded, subject to non-waivable rights. Direct technical problems to the contact page.
Use with care
Conversation needs consent, privacy, and room to pause.
The House We Make is educational and reflective material for consensual relationship use. It is not therapy, medical or legal advice, crisis support, or abuse intervention. If coercion, threats, stalking, intimidation, or violence are present, prioritize individual safety and specialized support over joint exercises.
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